Once she Said”As a woman, we like to anticipate, plan, plan and even sometimes dream of our princess wedding without even having found our prince charming. It’s a little different for men: they start to think seriously about the future only when he thinks he has found the right one, the unique one.
How do you know if he is ready and if he is projecting himself with you? Some signs are unmistakable: here are 12 that show that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
He organizes his daily life around you
You don’t turn down a job just because a woman is a good cook. If he tries to stay as close to you as possible, that’s a good sign. If you haven’t moved in together yet, he’s probably ready to talk about it. The important thing is that he cares about you.
He uses “we” more often than “I”
If a man talks about the things you do as a couple, he shows that he thinks of you in the plural and he appreciates the time spent together. In fact, he probably even thinks he wants to spend his life with you! This shows that he perceives you as a unique entity and his past conquests are far behind him. This is one of the best signs!
He likes to spend time at home with you
. It’s a good thing if you have fun with your darling, if you go out, but the important thing is also to be able to stay together at home and have fun as well. You may not be living together yet but you already have some of your stuff at each other’s house and you like to be together for shopping, cooking dinner, watching movies…
He’s with you, even if it’s not always rosy
. If your guy isn’t afraid to stick around when you’re pissed off, that’s a good sign that he loves you. It’s easy to be together when things are going well, but resisting and coping with the tough times takes patience and devotion. It means the two of you can face any problem together and that’s more than you can ask for.
You Buy Something Together
Whether it’s a dog, a gadget, or a new house, buying things together and sharing responsibilities means you’ve been in a relationship for a long time. First it’s a dog, then who knows, you’ll move on to the children?
You are part of his family
If you have reached this milestone in the relationship and you are appreciated by his family, it is a big step.
We often dread this moment, meeting the mother-in-law and the father-in-law for special occasions then it becomes natural. Maybe you even see each other just for the sake of spending time together, like you do with your own family!
You Share Hobbies
Some say opposites attract, but in the long run it’s best if you both share at least a few passions or have things in common. It’s so fun to watch movies together, go to yoga, take photos, and maybe even work on a few creative projects together! Common interests bring people together so if he likes the same things you do, you’ll be great together!
He really wants to fit in with your family
. You may have disagreements about certain friends or acquaintances, but it is difficult to have disagreements for family and loved ones. If your darling is close to your family and appreciates it, likes to discuss sports with your father for example, it is an obvious sign that he imagines himself sharing everything with you and living the next few years by your side.
He is still trying to surprise you!
Even after 6 months or a few years, he still tries to surprise you and make you smile. Routine can devastate a relationship, so it’s important to keep the little touches of everyday life and not forget the romantic part that made us get together in the beginning. This is why he tries and strives to organize short getaways, for example!
He talks about kids
A man talks about having kids only if he’s 100% sure he wants to spend his life with you. Otherwise he wouldn’t be comfortable talking about it. Whether he talks about it jokingly or seriously around a conversation about living together, having a family… this kind of discussion that brings closer, solidifies the couple and statement that every woman dreams of!
You live together
It’s important to live together for a little while before handing over the ring or simply realizing that you can’t live without each other. If you have already passed this milestone, congratulations! This means that you are at an important stage and well on your way to spending your life together (or at least knowing if it is actually working or not). If he first proposed to you to live together, it is sure that you are his one and only!
He wants to see you happy
As trivial as it may seem, wanting someone’s happiness is the greatest proof of love.
If he talks about your well-being and long-term life plans, rest assured that he plans to spend as much time with you as possible. Guys, don’t take this lightly!